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I couldn’t help cringing when I heard of this plan, but I wished him luck and offered my advice, should he desire it.
A few weeks later I ran into him again at a bar where he was telling the employee to pile some more “mutzadell” and “brahjzoot” on his panino.
I asked him how his quest was going and the sound of his bubble bursting must have been audible from across the piazza.
But after talking to him for a few minutes I came to realize that his ideal “Italian” woman bore a striking similarity to Snookie from the Jersey Shore and looked nothing like the Italian women that I knew. He probably would’ve known how to handle Snookie—but I’m quite sure that he had underestimated the mortal danger he would have encountered if, by some random chance, a real Italian woman would have shown some interest.
Never before in their lives have they been showered (inundated, pummeled) with such overt attention from the opposite sex—and most of them are ill-prepared to deal with it.
Case in point: last summer I met your typical Italian-American goombah at an aperitivo on the Isola one night.American men come to Italy to meet a nice Italian girl, only they’ve misjudged the peril and they lack the necessary skills to compete, so they are largely ignored or perhaps even mocked for their naivety.For the Italian men, an American girl might be an amusing distraction for a long weekend, but there’s no challenge and really they cannot be taken seriously. [bctt tweet=”The challenges for foreigners #dating in #Italy are more complex than you might think.” find italian single women online with one click " data-medium-file="https://rickzullo.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/Italian Singles-300x250.gif" data-large-file="https://rickzullo.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/Italian Singles.gif" class="wp-image-4481 size-medium" src=" Singles-300x250.gif" alt="italian single women online" width="300" height="250" / But the truth is, I don’t have any idea what he’s actually saying to these women to make them go blind with romantic fantasies.I’ve tried eavesdropping on conversations, but there’s something very subtle and cryptic in the repartee that would simply fall flat if it came from an American.